La carta de una joven insegura a un defecto en su trasero

Victoria D'Ariano es una entrenadora fitness canadiense que ha tenido que aguantar un defecto en su anatomía: tiene un hoyuelo en su trasero. Esa marca la acompaña desde que tenía 15 años.

Ahora, a los 24 años, le escribió una carta que publicó en su cuenta de Instagram: "Me has quitado la alegría, me has causado mucho estrés, me has hecho insegura y te has llevado mi confianza. Nunca me sentía en forma porque tú siempre estabas ahí".

La publicación de la joven de Ontario se viralizó, tal como informa el Huffington Post.

"Querido Hoyuelo del Culo, recuerdo el primer día que apareciste. Tenía 15 años. Desde entonces has tenido un impacto tremendamente negativo en mi vida. Desde entonces me has hecho sentir inferior. No sólo me has hecho sentir gorda, sino además inútil. Siempre has tenido un impacto en la ropa que elegía ponerme".

D'Ariano evita ponerse bikinis y ciertos leggings, con el fin de no tener que preocuparse por su pequeño defecto físico. Su carta le ha valido cientos de comentarios de apoyo de diferentes lugares del mundo.

Moving my hair and not thinking about the "perfect" angle. Standing straight (with a bad case of lordosis) Posing. I took a little break from posting these types of photos because I was afraid it would upset people, afraid to upset different communities. The truth of the matter is that I don't need to belong to one community or another I can simply be me and just share my journey. Some won't agree, and I am learning that this is okay. I am sharing my story, MINE. It doesn't have to meet someone else's approval or someone else's guidelines. It doesn't need to be placed in one group or another. There doesn't need to be a standard that you feel you must hold yourself up to. It's not about one picture looking "bad" or another looking good" it's about showing beauty in someone being okay with themselves. This is about learning that there doesn't have to be two sides, no reason to label something different as it is just one. It's not about proving one point over another...or making a point at all. It's about being real and not having to choose to show just the "societal accepted parts" but ANY parts you want. Remember. You can be anyone you want to be. You might be pushed in a direction of what you are "supposed to be" but it doesn't mean you have to follow that direction. You can learn to be comfortable as any person in this world...not because someone told you that you can (because this will never happen) but because you gave YOURSELF permission to be. You will not always be someone's cup of coffee, but remember you are the one who will spend the rest of your life drinking it. And I'm not sure about you, but I want to wake up every morning enjoying the cup of coffee I drink. #couragetobeyou

Una publicación compartida de victoriadariano (@victoriadariano) el 7 de Jun de 2017 a la(s) 9:31 PDT

A similar post to last week but I am overcoming an insecurity of mine. . Dear Butt Dimple, I remember the first day you appeared. I was 15 years old. Since then you have had a hugely negative impact on my life. Since then you have made me feel less about myself. You not only made me feel fat, but also unworthy. You have always had an impact on what I chose to wear. I would avoid certain bikinis, and even some of my favorite leggings. I would never feel confident in a bikini because I thought everyone was staring at you. I would never wear my favorite leggings because again I always thought people were starting at you. Long shirts were my go-to as it was a way I could cover you up and have a moment of peace within my mind as no one would be judging you. I remember endless hours of looking at you in the mirror, squeezing you and wondering why I had you. I remember crying of embarrassment as other girls I was friends with didn’t have you. I would exercise extra hard in hopes you would go away. I would eat better also in hopes you would go away. I even considered cellulite treatments so you would finally just go away. You never did, you still haven’t. You took a lot of joy away from me, you caused a lot of stress for me, you made me insecure and took away my confidence. I could never feel in shape as you were always there. I am writing you today to tell you I have finally stopped letting you win. You will no longer make me feel unworthy, not good enough or not in shape because of you. I will no longer be afraid to wear certain bathing suits or leggings because of you. I will no longer hide you. You are what you are and I have finally come to peace with that. I have finally accepted you. ✨when I reflect back on this I realize how stupid it is to have let something this superficial have an impact on my life but it did. I am happy that I have been able to overcome this and I hope if you have a similar struggle you can realize that you too can and will. Don't let things of such insignificance ever take away your happiness. #fuckthedimple #freethebooty #couragetobeyou ❤️

Una publicación compartida de victoriadariano (@victoriadariano) el 21 de May de 2017 a la(s) 9:06 PDT

What are your goals? What are my goals? I thought about this today and decided I need to make some new goals for myself. All of my goals that I have had for the past few years were about my physique: wanting bigger delts, better abs, nicer legs and always wanting to be leaner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having these goals but for me personally I am ready to focus on different things. Note that I will be still working on my physique but because I enjoy training and staying in shape. However this goal is about me, but not on an exterior level but focused on the inner core. This goal has nothing to do with achieving a certain physique but instead to really learn who I am, not just touching the surface, but deeply. I want to acknowledge the internal parts of myself I am not happy with or know could be better and work on improving these areas. I want to deal with any emotional loose ends that I may have, ones that I have never wanted to deal with and pushed away from years on end. I want to be a more positive, loving, kinder, happier, and a more present person. I want to learn how to always see the positives in all life situations, no matter how rough they may be. I want to be someone who radiates positive energy and I know that starts with me. After reflecting on myself lately I am happy with who I am but know there is so many areas I can improve on. I know that the more work I put into myself the happier and more fulfilling my life will be. That is the ultimate goal right now.

Una publicación compartida de victoriadariano (@victoriadariano) el 3 de Jun de 2017 a la(s) 6:00 PDT